tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post5850860190765099031..comments2023-10-26T08:59:21.846-07:00Comments on Dirty Knickers - Aired and Shared: Playing Too Hard To Get - Part OneSamantha Ellishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10621147304992168154noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-88837982982202508842011-03-13T06:01:31.774-07:002011-03-13T06:01:31.774-07:00Ah I really don't like the idea of rules like ...Ah I really don't like the idea of rules like these. Why can't people just act however they want to? If I want to talk to someone I do, and it'd make things a lot more fun/easier if girls did the same!<br /><br />Often if I try and talk to a girl and she doesn't reply, or replies seeming very cool then I'll just assume that she's not interested and move on. Now I have to also double guess whether she's either deliberately showing disinterest or just feigning it? Ahhhh!Jakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12169469327479936450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-55173200300517682402011-02-07T23:43:13.183-08:002011-02-07T23:43:13.183-08:00Are you sure what you're expressing here quali...Are you sure what you're expressing here qualifies as an "opinion"? It comes across more like post-modern feminist rhetoric if you ask me. And I'm reading your blog because I'm bored and it looked intriguing. It would be entertaining if it wasn't patently annoying, which is neither here nor there. Your target audience obviously isn't men.<br /><br />Besides, if you've seen MY blog you should know better than to take anything that I have to say seriously. I'm sort of an agent provocateur for the mentally ill. Cheers!notsanityhttp://notsanity.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-60859951349872570612011-02-07T00:36:52.565-08:002011-02-07T00:36:52.565-08:00Miss City Girl: Thanks, that's also a personal...Miss City Girl: Thanks, that's also a personal fave!<br /><br />NotSanity: OK you've made it abundantly clear on another post that you don't agree with my opinions, which leaves me to wonder why you bother reading my blog at all. <br /><br />P.s Men are very similar to rodents though.Samantha Ellishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10621147304992168154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-22638237008410808822011-02-06T18:12:49.249-08:002011-02-06T18:12:49.249-08:00Yeah, OK. Not a completely bitchy approach or anyt...Yeah, OK. Not a completely bitchy approach or anything. So in your world view, men are basically hamsters running through a maze. That's more than a little disturbing.notsanityhttp://notsanity.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-69257618333317245872011-02-03T06:06:10.305-08:002011-02-03T06:06:10.305-08:00I couldn't agree more. Especially the line: me...I couldn't agree more. Especially the line: men are pitiful little creatures a lot of the time and tend to equate longing with love.<br />I couldn't have put it better myself! xEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10666839897400490394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-79858704782399191472011-01-15T12:32:31.251-08:002011-01-15T12:32:31.251-08:00It's like anything else on the globe: Everythi...It's like anything else on the globe: Everything in moderation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-14744760764401344492011-01-15T08:23:34.011-08:002011-01-15T08:23:34.011-08:00"It's one thing to test the willingness o..."It's one thing to test the willingness of the pursuer, but it's quite another to appear completely uninterested. Reply. But don't ask a question. Go for a conversation killer like indeed or haha. That's a test: his willingness to start a new topic"<br /><br />That's a slightly risky strategy to be playing. If someone has taken the time to contact you, and is genuinely interested in you for something beyond a quick shag, how do you think that kind of behaviour comes across? I have trouble reading that attitude when I've been speaking to anyone as anything but actual disinterest on their part. <br /><br />If you intend to play the "test" card, do it rarely. Personally I'll make the effort to try to keep the conversation going after being met with that once or twice, but there after you're just giving us an invitation to walk!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7087198771668015675.post-55927833775963104692011-01-13T01:07:36.382-08:002011-01-13T01:07:36.382-08:00Ahhh I do love your blog. I find myself nodding al...Ahhh I do love your blog. I find myself nodding along and saying 'hmm yes, I agree' or 'ah, good point'. I'm definitely with you in saying we shouldn't alwaaays be 'unavailable'; if we do, then they will just end up thinking exactly that, and move on to greener pastures. I do think playing it cool works- I never contact first, unless I have something extremely witty to share (rare)- although you don't want them thinking you're a complete ice queen or else they'll just thing they can do a shag n run and you won't give a s**t (happened to me before). Maintain a healthy balance I say!!<br />Looking forward to the next one :)Lucy Sherriffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07442264794634181336noreply@blogger.com